(Editor's note: This post initially appeared on my Tumblr. But since they decided to kill that site by removing erotica, porn, etc. I just decided to move a couple of my commentary pieces here.)
As an solid, hardcore introvert, I find people watching at remove to be a fascinating hobby. And the amateur sociologist in me has been pondering this conundrum recently:
The expectation of an attractive person being good in bed is somewhat paradoxical, no?
The theory is that we are usually attracted to others by what we see first; usually we have to be interested in what we see in order to engage. As a 5 on a scale of 1-10 I concede that I am guilty of this every damn day. And I am really not in a position to judge.
(I'm probably being generous in calling myself a 5 as well.)
Anyway, what I wonder, though, is how often does the rating on appearance match up with the ability to actually satisfy a partner in bed.
Like, we drool over women (or men, for those who swing that way) all the time that might be gorgeous/handsome...but how disappointed would we actually be if we got them into bed and found out that they were horrible?
Monday, December 17, 2018
Addendum to a Prior Post on Fetishizing People
(Editor's note: This post initially appeared on my Tumblr. But since they decided to kill that site by removing erotica, porn, etc. I just decided to move a couple of my commentary pieces here.)
So I wrote this yesterday at my other spot on the web. But I wanted to add a brief thought.
So I wrote this yesterday at my other spot on the web. But I wanted to add a brief thought.
One of the things that led me to post this was seeing a few profiles on Twitter where there were women and couples very much trying to live the “Queen of Spades”/cuckold lifestyle where the black dick is good enough to fuck, but god forbid they care about the life of the actual man attached to the dick. A whole lot of MAGA-type propaganda mixed in with the tweets bragging about taking black dick and loving black dick on the profiles of some of these folks.
I find the cognitive dissonance fascinating and frustrating.
Basically, they just want a flesh dildo.
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