It's a hard knock life on social media sometimes for male fans. Granted, we often to it to ourselves, and I realize that the actions of a jackwadish, ignorant few leads to frustrations that the rest of us have to live with.
To the lovely ladies that I follow, please hear me out. I am not trying to offer false flattery. I am not trying to get into your pants, nor do I think that the silly words I throw out there will be enough for you to come out to Las Vegas (if you don't already live here), drop your drawers and fling yourself onto my bed in the throes of passionate, wanton lust.
Child, please. To paraphrase Chris Rock from his "Never Scared" concert and DVD, I am not that kind of guy. I never really meet and girls that want to fuck me. I just don't bring it out of them like that. When women see me that they want to fuck me, they get pragmatic about it. That is just my lot in life, and I deal with it.
I wanted to be clear, though; if I offer a comment complimenting you on a picture, or your hair, or your eyes, it's not to get in your pants. From me, it is a sincere compliment. I try not to make it fawning, or too lurid if it has to do with your naughty bits. If I'm offering a compliment, it is a compliment and nothing more.
I don't have an ulterior motive. I'm just trying to say something nice that may brighten your day.
Because even though I am awful at receiving compliments, who doesn't like to be told something positive about themselves? Be it a physical attribute or something related to personality, it's just a random act of kindness to me.
/drops mic.
I think sometimes we're conditioned to assume that guys who are nice want something from us. Sadly, it's because countless others have done exactly that, especially for performers, because either
ReplyDelete(1) they provide private sessions so that's how their brains are wired or
(2) they're constantly on the hustle or
(3) they've been used/abused in the past by guys who are nice, but with strings attached, only to get rude/violent/abusive when they don't get what they were actually after (usually sex).
I've received really nice things from people over the years, with no reciprocation desired - though I do out of common courtesy. But I also make a point of making sure that there are no strings attached before I accept something. Keeping an open honest dialogue is important so no one makes any assumptions ;)
It truly is a hard knock life being a nice guy