Wednesday, January 16, 2019

Dear Ms. Fantasy (2019)

When I first started blogging off and on about porn 11 (!) years ago, one of the first things I committed to digital memory is a piece in which I honored the beauty of some women in the industry. I called it, at the time, "Dear Ms. Fantasy" as a pun of sorts; a play on words of the Traffic song, "Dear Mr. Fantasy".

From the start, I was skewing older. What are you gonna do?

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When I brought it back later, I renamed that post, "The Lust List". Those posts have consistently been the ones that have the highest click rates of anything that I write.

But I have shied away from those posts in recent year because of time. And not wanting to just paint women as objects to be lusted after. And the fact that the world has kind of gone to hell in a handbasket recently.

But sexwork is essentially under attack now. With Tumblr and their bullshit about taking porn down in Decemeber. To FOSTA/SESTA affecting escorts and companions and essentially doing the opposite of what it was intended to do. To guys basically not knowing how act online when engaging with performers and escorts...it is all just too damn much.

So I realize that this post probably amounts to nothing more than the equivalent of "Thoughts and Prayers". And I acknowledge, again, that the best way to support your favorite porn performer is to buy their content or get them items off of their wishlists that they can use on camera.

With all that being said as a preamble, I should just get to the point of this post:

The resurrection of Dear Ms. Fantasy.

So, the approach I am taking to this post is this: I have done a few amateur solo scenes, and I have done a few pro-am scenes in my day. But I am not a professional; I am somewhere between a fan and a part-time performer. Because of the nature of what I do for a living, I am limited to only doing POV scenes, and I just don't have the time to do too much. Which is a shame. I wish I could do more performing.

AND...if I were to do more scenes, the following women are the women that I would love to do a scene with.

(Psst...that's why they're my fantasy. See how that works?)

Beneath each woman's picture you can check out their Twitter Handle and either their clip store or their website. Follow them on Twitter; buy their clips; join their sites if you can. Support the content creators so that we can continue to be graced with their content. If you see them at AVN, the BBW Awards or BBW Strip Night in Vegas this coming week, mind your manners and be nice to them as well.

(And if any of them want to shoot with me, hit me up at jaysonfdean@gmail.com. ;) )

Also, please note that this list is obviously not limited to only these women. There are plenty of women that I find attractive in the industry for a variety of reasons and would be interested in working with/seeing more of.

Okay, enough from me for real now.

On to the list!










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